As much as I have loathed her in the past, and I have good reason to, I really, really, really feel for this girl right now.
It seems pretty obvious that Kevin Federline was only out for money. It's really easy to sit on the sidelines with a medi-ocre, at best, career and watch your wife and let your wife (and perhaps HELP your wife) spin out of control because she is one of the biggest media victims in a long time. Because of that, it's easy to divorce, get custody, and get loads and loads of alimony and over-rewarded child support that will probably be skimmed from or used on really frivolous things.
I could be wrong, but I doubt it. I hope Britney realizes that while she has laughed to the bank and made more $$ than anybody ever deserves and was a tool/pawn, at the same time, she has been subjected to some gigantic forces that would screw up just about anybody and that deep down, a lot of this is not her fault and she has to learn to forgive herself for some things. Round one may have gone to K-Fed, but there are probably loads and loads and loads of more rounds. She is a very young woman with the rest of her life ahead of her, and she has the time and resources to totally turn things around - not just for her, but for her kids. Well, if such is possible, anyway, if her kids still have a fighting chance at growing up well-adjusted. But if she has the right people on her side and aligns herself with the right people, and there are probably a few people out there with her better interests in mind, she will be more likely to accomplish this.
-M